We have all made mistakes in the past but if we let our regrets linger and haunt us, we will never know what we can become or accomplish. Don’t hold on to your past mistakes just because you spent a lot of time making it. Stop giving yourself a hard time for the mistakes you have made, decisions you could have changed, and time you’ve wasted. Here’s how to overcome past mistakes and move on with life:
1) Your mistakes are not as bad as you think
Other people have made even bigger mistakes. Just because you made a few wrong turns doesn’t mean you’re doomed forever. Make the best of where you are right now instead of letting your mistakes define you.
2) You can’t erase your mistakes without erasing yourself
Stop wishing you could delete all the things you have done wrong. If you erase your past mistakes, you will erase the person you are today. Find the silver lining. You wouldn’t be the strong person you are today without the mistakes you have made.
3) Focus on building a new relationship with yourself
Instead of trying to erase yourself, the first thing you need to do is accept all the mistakes you have made. Don’t hate yourself for allowing them to happen. You can’t change the past. Just love who you are, mistakes and all. The magic can only happen when you start seeing yourself in a different light.
4) Choose learning and growth instead of condemning yourself
If you keep focusing on your past mistakes, you will never get the chance to grow. Learn something new. Master a new skill. The best way to feel better about yourself is to grow. Once you gain self-confidence, you will discover a whole new world and realise your true potential.
5) Focus on moving forward
Reshape your goals instead of continuing to allow your past mistakes to influence your decisions. Set new goals and do the things that you have always wanted to do. You are capable of leaving the past behind and you have what it takes to start fresh.
6) Live your life differently
Avoid making the same mistakes over and over again. Change your habits and priorities. Wake up early. Fill your days with positive thoughts. Do something productive every day. Be more confident. Stop thinking you’re not good enough. Make the necessary changes to become the version of yourself.
“Well, we all make mistakes, dear, so just put it behind you. We should regret our mistakes and learn from them, but never carry them forward into the future with us.”
― L.M. Montgomery, Anne of Avonlea
Danila was a magazine writer focused on lifestyle topics and a communications specialist in the telecommunications industry where her work was published or broadcast via several offline and online media channels before shifting to freelance writing. Besides writing, she enjoys travel, taking photos, and reading.